Why a Relationship with a Ghost is Sometimes Better

NOTE: This article is made for fun. Please don't take this seriously. But that's up to you. :)

1. You don't need to worry about faithfulness. He won't flirt with other girls and is not interested in that anymore.

2. He won't nag. He no longer have vocal cords. He won't be demanding as well.

3. You won't get bugged by text messages asking you where you are and who's with you. He doesn't need to ask anyway. He knows. You don't need to lie.

4. He won't need space. You wouldn't suffer because of his so called "caveman drama" where he'll just stop communicating and disappear from your sight for a matter of days or weeks and then, come back when he's ready to mingle with you again. He sticks with you. And more than that, he lingers 24/7. 

5. He doesn't have a Facebook account. That is why there is no reason for you to get jealous of the pics he uploads, and the statuses he posts; and vice versa. You don't have to unfriend him when the relationship turns sour and add him back when your anger has passed.

6. It's not difficult to say sorry. No effort is needed for this most of the time. He isn't hard to please too. 

7. You don't have to oblige yourself to have sex with him. He doesn't need it.

8. Less obligation is required. No need to wash and iron clothes, no need to cook, and so on. He also wouldn't complain if the house is not clean. 

9. He wouldn't add up to the monthly billing and other expenses. He doesn't use electricity (though he may absorb electrically charged ions to be able to manifest), he doesn't need cellphone load, water and so on. Hence, you'll be able to save more money. 

10. Communication is easier if you are sensitive enough. It only needs telepathy to send and receive messages from him. You don't need to text him or send him PMs and wait for his reply forever. 

11. He can't hurt you physically, emotionally and mentally. 

12. You can always shut him off if you wish. And he'll wait patiently until you're OK again. 

13. It wouldn't matter to him if you're gaining weight or if you're developing wrinkles. You don't need to be upset if you're tummy has grown bigger and if your breasts are already sagging. He always sees you as the real you. The young version of you. 

14. He doesn't have bad influential friends. You wouldn't get that much headache because he doesn't go to drinking sprees, spend money on other girls and expensive gadgets. 

15. His love is forever.

The author, Jade Martin, is the founder and creator of Center for Paranormal Studies, Profilers of the Unknown and Intramuros Ghost Walk. She is also a Businesswoman, Life and Business Coach, Author, Singer and Songwriter, Ghost Tour Operator, Paranormal Investigator and Consultant, Energy Healer, Hypnotherapist, Past Life Regression Therapist, Numerologist and Tarot Reader. Please join Center for Paranormal Studies. 

Thanks to My Detractors and Bashers - I Owe You My Success

Just this week, I became a victim again of Cyber Bullying on Facebook. Though I am used to it, I still couldn't help but sigh and ask myself this question ---> "Why can't some people get a life?"

I do not intend to elaborate the story and I will not mention names because I do not want to give some people and groups free publicity. I also do not want to humiliate them that much like what they are doing to me. I wrote this blog because I want to pour my heart out and start breathing with ease again.

I posted about filing a case against these people on my FB Wall; but you know what truth is? I LIED ABOUT IT! I do not really have the intention to do that in spite of their uncontrollable behavior. I only posted that to serve as a bait...a trap that will get some people feasting over my post and doing things that will give me some sort of confirmation. May the universe forgive me for having thoughts such as these.

I wanted to know if my suspicion that a former member of my team is continuing his hate campaign against me; watching over my back and waiting for a chance to backbite me again like he did before. I came to a point of thinking that he could be behind these people. I was surprised that this guy PMed me right after I posted that statement. He wasn't even my friend on FB but he seemed to be so much updated about my actions. Is this a confirmation that I am right or am I just being imaginative? Who can really tell anyway?

I know that it may be unfair to have this kind of suspicion. But with how great the damages he did to me before, I wouldn't be surprised if ever I'll find out that he is still up to something until now. I swear, I tried my best to shake that thought off my mind. I've moved on long time ago and I continue to move forward; but I couldn't stop it from coming back because of the trauma I've experienced. No matter how mean I would appear to be right now and though I might not be able to prove my allegations, it is my right to contemplate.

I also want to see if another group of people would plunge into the issue again. That will also give me some kind of confirmation that they are stalking me and my group to fetch something to talk about and make fun of. I was not surprised anymore when I got reports that they are indeed talking about me. And I secretly laughed...

I refuse to say anything evil to anyone, but to my detractors and bashers, I would like to say "THANK YOU."

Thank you for making me stronger. And though you often tag me as PIKON, this is what I say to you; I am PROUDLY PIKON because that is much better than being BITTER. I know that I have my share of imperfections as human. I maybe brutally straightforward, tactless and stringent; but I am not a bad person. People who are working closely with me can vouch for that. If you think it is your right to question my integrity, it is also my right to be ANGRY sometimes, especially when people have gone too far. You do not seem to know your limits and that makes me sad. I wish that everyone on Earth will be happy and free-spirited. I am saying this with sincerity. 

Furthermore, thank you for making me feel like a SUPERSTAR. I would like to extend my gratitude because you are giving me so much attention. I must be a very important person. Bad publicity is still publicity and I am gaining more followers because of you. Your actions seem to be working in favor of me, not against me.

My start in the paranormal field was truly painstaking and I would always look back at the times where I would often shed tears...not knowing where my initiative will take me. The only thing I have with me then is faith and a good intention. I used to fear then that I would fail. But now, I gladly look at the fruits of my labor. 

I couldn't help but be happy because my team, PROFILERS OF THE UNKNOWN, is gaining more strength and credibility as time goes by. My affirmation comes from my teammates who are trustworthy, kindhearted and noble. We work together as one big happy family.

I couldn't help but rejoice whenever I see how CENTER FOR PARANORMAL STUDIES grows. And though I know for a fact that there will always be people who will still try to pull me down, the loyalty that my teammates and friends are giving me, and the support I am getting from a large number of people would be enough to keep me standing still.

Some spirits cannot get out of the dark because they don't know how to. While some spirits stay in the dark because they want to drag people to where they are. I'd rather be not like them. I'd go out of the dark to get some good works done. I do not need to speak so highly of myself at this point. I'd simply close this message with these words..

I CAN ALWAYS FORGIVE BUT I WON'T FORGET.

The author, Jade Martin, is the founder and creator of Center for Paranormal Studies, Profilers of the Unknown and Intramuros Ghost Walk. She is also a Businesswoman, Life and Business Coach, Author, Singer and Songwriter, Ghost Tour Operator, Paranormal Investigator and Consultant, Energy Healer, Hypnotherapist, Past Life Regression Therapist, Numerologist and Tarot Reader. Please join Center for Paranormal Studies.

Baguio's Haunted Diplomat Hotel and It's Dark Past

The former Diplomat Hotel in Baguio City, Philippines sits on top of the Dominican Hill. It used to be a rest house and a seminary way back 1911 before it was developed into a school and eventually, a hotel.

Almost every tourist that goes to Baguio makes it a point to visit this place because in spite of the ruins, it remained as one of the most panoramic and picturesque spots in the City of Pines.

During the World War II, numerous nuns and priests were beheaded here. This is believed to be the reason why headless apparitions can often be seen during the night inside the hotel. The employees and guests also claimed that they would often hear strange sounds coming from the building. Crying coming from kids and babies became a common noise, which can be attributed to the massacre of numerous children done at the fountain.

The bombs that showered this structure so many years ago reduced it to something almost beyond renewal. Fortunately, it was reconstructed in 1947 and in 1973, it was acquired and transformed into a hotel by Diplomat Hotels, Inc. Managing it then is businessman, psychic surgeon and spiritual healer Tony Agpaoa. Since then, it became the haven of his patients that mostly came from abroad and they stayed here while being healed.

Based on research, there was an incident wherein fire broke out many years ago and several guests who were then staying at the hotel were trapped inside and died. One of the caretakers also affirmed that for unknown reasons, a woman who used to work here as a nurse committed suicide by jumping from the rooftop where the cross is situated.

Since the death of Tony Agpaoa in 1987, the hotel ceased its operation and was temporarily closed to the public. It was declared off limits to visitors as well. However, the people who are living nearby were often disturbed by sounds coming from the Dominican Hill at night. They would hear banging of doors and windows, clattering of dishes and voices of screaming people, who seem to be agonizing.

(Note: Tony Agpaoa had a heart attack inside the hotel and was rushed to a hospital where he died.)

A lot of documentaries have been written about this mysterious structure. Up to these days, many curious people go to Baguio to see the ruins of what used to be the spellbinding grand hotel that boasts of its large rooms, striking details and admirable design.

I, myself, have very special memories of Baguio's Diplomat Hotel that I can ardently share to those who will join us when we explore this place once more. Considered as one of the most haunted locations in the Philippines, I would always want to see this wonderful site again and again.

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The author, Jade Martin, is the founder and creator of Center for Paranormal Studies, Profilers of the Unknown and Intramuros Ghost Walk. She is also a Businesswoman, Life and Business Coach, Author, Singer and Songwriter, Ghost Tour Operator, Paranormal Investigator and Consultant, Energy Healer, Hypnotherapist, Past Life Regression Therapist, Numerologist and Tarot Reader. Please join Center for Paranormal Studies.